| Location | Ashland |
| Age | 23 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 6/1984 |
| Date of Death | 2007 |
| Visitors | 2,693 since 22/01/2008 |
| Creator |
Jason Lee Hafford
June 5-1984 to
January 15-2007
Heavy Equipment Operator
Died by suicide
Jason is survived by his mother and father Julie&Ron Belanger one brother Eric John Hafford and his fiance Beth Soltowski.His maternal grandmother Alicia Burby,paternal grandparents Adrian and Patricia Belanger two special cousins Jill and Kristopher Burby and many aunts,uncles, cousins and many friends. Jason was a very kind loving and funny person he was always trying to put a smile on everyones face.He would go out of his way to help anyone.He loved music ,hunting ,fishing,snowmobiling, video games and just about anything to do with being out of doors.He was so in love with his girlfriend Jessica.He called her his terrific girlfriend when he talked about her.He used to do impressions of people and was quite good at it.You should have seen his
Chris Farley impression it was awesome.
Wishing Peace for Jason & Julie
Hi Jason, I'm Mike's Mom. Do you know him? Did you
meet him yet? He would be the redish/blond kid who acts a little like Chris farley, but not as obnoxious..lol Mike's a funny guy...I'm sure you have each other laughing your butts off up there...(smile) Well, don't stop on my account...lol
Julie, You have created a beautiful site to honor your baby. I'm sure he is surrounding you with his love and appreciation all the time. I like to think Mike is surrounding me too.
I wish you Peace Jason, and Many Angel Hugs for you Julie!!!
Hugs, Mary E. Mom Of Michael
Hi Jason,
Well it has been two whole years since you died.
I million tears I have cried.My heart aches for you all the time.You are always on my mind.I look up at the sky at night and wonder where you are.Maybe you are on a cloud or one of the brightest stars.I wish I could just go to sleep and not wake until I'm with you.But everyday I am still here it doesn't come true.
Loving and missing you so much my baby.
Mom
Twenty Months Today
Jason Lee
The moment that you died, my heart split in two. One side filled with memories. The other died with you. I often lay awake at night, when the world is fast asleep.
And take a walk down memory lane, with tears upon my cheeks, Remembering you is easy, I do it everyday .
But missing you is a heartache, that never goes away.
I hold You tightly within my heart, and there you will remain,
Life goes on without you , But will never be the same.
Love and miss you always
Always and forever
Mom
Jason Missing You With All my Heart
Why I will never know
Was it not enough love I did not show
I thought you knew how I felt dear one
You will always be my baby son
I hope as the song says you are as free
as a bird now
I wish you could let me know somehow
I a can not wait till I see you agian
I will be looking for you at the end
Love and miss you every second of everyday Mom
In Honor of your wonderful son, Jason
THERE ARE MEN TOO GENTLE TO LIVE AMONG WOLVES
Poem by James Kavanaugh
There are men too gentle to live among wolves
Who prey upon them with IBM eyes
And sell their hearts and guts for martinis at noon.
There are men too gentle for a savage world
Who dream instead of snow and children and Halloween
And wonder if the leaves will change their color soon.
There are men too gentle to live among wolves
Who anoint them for burial with greedy claws
And murder then for a merchant's profit and gain.
There are men too gentle for a corporate world
Who dream instead of candied apples and ferris wheels
And pause to hear the distant whistle of a train.
There are men too gentle to live among wolves.
Who devour them with eager appetite and search
For other men to prey upon and suck their childhood dry.
There are men too gentle for an accountant's world
Who dream instead of Easter eggs and fragrant grass
And search for beauty in the mystery of the sky.
There are men too gentle to live among wolves
Who toss them like a lost and wounded dove.
Such gentle men are lonely in a merchant's world.
Unless they have a gentle one to love.
Thinkin of you!
Just thinking of you. Rest in Peace Jay. We miss you and you will never be forgotten!
I dreamed of you last nite as I often do.
It was a dream of when you were little around the
age of two.
I was reading your favorite book When you Give A Mouse a
cookie oh how you loved that story.
I wish I could go back in time and relive all the worry.
I wish I did not know how your life story would end.
Just one more chance to do it all again and maybe your story
would have a different end.
To hold you and rock like I used to do and hug you and kiss you and tell you how much I love you.
Missing you terribly as I do everyday love mom
here comes the rain
Jay ~ For some reason tonights rain brought thoughts of you with it . . . first sad then, like always, I smiled. It never fails, thoughts of you always end in a smile. It's the image of you grinning that turns my tears into a grin and brings good thoughts and memories to my mind. Rest peacefully dear Jason. You are loved and missed by many. Wrap your arms around those who need to feel your presence and bring comfort to them on their weakest days, keep them strong with memories of you. Good night
I saw you today
Not with my eyes, with my mind
I hugged you today
Not with my arms, with my heart
I heard you whisper 'Mom'
Not in my ears, through the wind
My ears hear the thunder crack
My heart feels the impact
My mind knows, but will never understand
That you decided to go
My heart refuses
To believe it was so
I saw you today
Not with my eyes, with my mind
I hugged you today
Not with my arms, with my heart
I told you I love you today
Not in words...with longing
> Life has no answer ... so I cry
> By Lyndie Sorenson
>
> I ask the question simply why?
> Life has no answer, so I cry
> A loss so deep can't be explained
> This broken heart is what remains
>
> Tears that fall upon my face
> Love for you won't be erased
> Time moves on without you now
> I ask the question simply how?
>
> Day in day out I wear this mask
> Life has changed into a task
> I ask the question simply why?
> Life has no answer so I cry
>
> Some have said I need to pray
> That I will be just fine one day
> This was what was meant to be
> You're now at peace... you are set free
>
> Within my heart it hurts so deep
> The days are long, I cannot sleep
> Time moves on without you now
> I ask the question simply how?
>
> Someday I hope that I will find...
> Some happiness, some peace of mind
> For losing you, I still ask why?
> Life has no answer.... so I cry
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